Can You Get Herpes from Kissing?

Imagine this: You’re on a date and having a great time. As you approach your flat, you start to wonder if they’re planning to give you a kiss. Then, it happens. Your partner leans in for a smooch, and you see a red mark near their lips. Is it a zit, or is it herpes? If you pucker up, will you catch herpes, too? Arming yourself with the facts about the herpes simplex virus (HSV) and being prepared to have honest conversations with potential partners is the best way to avoid infection and complications. Our quick guide will address the most common questions about herpes so you can stay healthy.

What is Herpes?

The herpes simplex virus (HSV) comes in two forms – HSV-1 (or herpes 1) and HSV-2 (or herpes 2). HSV-1 is more common and generally involves an infection in or around the mouth. It can, however, cause genital herpes. HSV-2 mainly causes infection on or around the genitals. In either instance, the infection is characterised by blisters, open sores (sometimes known as cold sores), and ulcers. Because it is a virus, herpes can also cause fevers, headaches, body aches, and swollen lymph nodes.

Is Herpes an STD?

Although Herpes 1 is frequently transmitted orally, it is not classified as an STD. Herpes 2, however, is classified as a sexually transmitted disease.

Can you get Herpes from kissing?

Yes, you can get herpes from kissing! One of the primary ways that HSV-1 is spread is through oral-to-oral contact – in other words, kissing! Herpes can also be through exposure during oral sex and any physical contact with the virus. The spread of both herpes 1 and herpes 2 can only occur when the virus is active. Once a person catches herpes, it will never leave their body. There may be very long periods where the virus is dormant. From time to time, the virus may “wake up” and cause discomfort and visible sores. When this happens, the virus is very contagious.

How can I protect myself?

When it comes to herpes, communication is critical. Talk to any partners about their history with HSV 1 or 2. This is important because many people have contracted HSV at some point in their lives. According to the World Health Organisation, the majority of the population has the herpes virus. Still, you needn’t panic or become a monk. By being honest and talking about herpes, you can avoid contracting the virus yourself.

In many cases, a sufferer will notice signs that an outbreak is impending. If they feel a burning, itching, or tingling sensation around their mouth or genitals, you should assume that the virus is becoming active and avoid contact with these areas. Wait until the virus has completely cleared up before kissing or becoming sexually active again. And although wearing a condom can help reduce the spread of genital herpes, we still suggest waiting until the infection has cleared up.

What are the odds of getting Herpes?

It’s not easy to calculate the exact risk, but according to the Herpes Virus Association, women are half as likely to transmit herpes to a partner than the other way around. Again, we emphasise the importance of communication and precautionary methods to reduce the likelihood of infection.

Be Proactive and Get Tested With Better2Know

Are you concerned that you could have recently contracted the herpes simplex virus? Find a nearby clinic and get tested today. You can also call our 24/7 support team with the number above for more information about getting tested. Our expert team can even help you schedule an appointment and find a convenient location near you.

Sources:

• Herpes simplex virus – WHO
• Passing on/transmitting herpes – Herpes Viruses Association